Premature
ejaculation is one of the major causes why many couples experience a
frustrating and unsatisfying sexual relationship. Many men are obsessed with gaining
control over their ejaculation and thus perfecting their lovemaking technique
but lack the knowledge regarding how it's actually done and more importantly –
what causes premature ejaculation.
Not all writers define premature ejaculation the same way, but if we think
literally, it is the male's incapability to control his ejaculation. Some of
the authors declare that a man has premature ejaculation if he cant hold out for
more than 30 seconds where some of the authors hold the limit of premature
ejaculation between 30 seconds to 7 minutes after vaginal penetration. Nevertheless
premature ejaculation becomes a stern problem when the man cant restrain from
ejaculating for a reasonable amount of time, i.e., sufficient time for the
woman to be satisfied. This dilemma is actually a lack of bodily regulation and
therefore, anyone can get it back through proper training and understanding that
his ejaculation is a voluntary act. Men need to know that this is not a disease
or a defect of some sort that you are born with.
What are the causes of premature ejaculation?
Contrary to rumors age or sexual inexperience are not the causes for premature
ejaculation. Some men even think that sexual stimulation or sexual
hypersensitivity is the cause – again, not true. People believe that it is
related to age, or that it is related to sexual experience – not true.
Premature
ejaculation is not related to anything physical.
Reasons of premature ejaculation can be quite different such as
- Lack of preparation to instigate sex.
- A state of nervousness or anxiety caused by some
other sexual problems like impotence.
- Lack of interest in prolonging sexual intercourse.
Consequently, the diagnosis of premature ejaculation may not need any blood
test, urine tests, ultrasound, semen, or any other physical examination.
How then can premature ejaculation be controlled?
Premature ejaculation in men is often accountable for a shortage of stimulus
for sexual acts; a depreciation of their personal image which eventually may
reach to a psychosomatic impotence. For women, the premature ejaculation of the
partner may also be the cause of lack of spur to make love, and lack of an orgasm
can progress to frustration and the deterioration in the sexual desire. The
only serious and effective scientific treatment is psychological and therapeutical.
It is a journey that both partners need to take. There are courses for both
partners and for men only on how to open up, how to learn to better communicate
with your partner. There are different exercises, methods and lessons that are available
through clinics that specify in the studies Sexology and psychology.
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Last Updated
3rd of May, 2011